-My moms aunt or something like dat has died and erryone in my house is all sad and crying but I have never even heard of her or met her so
How should I feelWell, its usual to not be affected (because you didn't even know her) but you should be able to show your symathy to your aunt. There is no "wrong" feeling... but if that happened 2 me i would feel sad for the sake of some1 in my family dieing... Hope this helped!Your question has nothing to do with genealogy, but I will give it a shot - try to show some compassion to how others are feeling. Although you don't know the person obviously others do and although you probably cannot feel sad about the death of someone you didn't know, you can feel somewhat sad because other are upset.
If you didn鈥檛 know them, you have no reason to mourn but you do have an obligation to respect the feelings of others during their time of sadness, so, ask what you can do to be helpful and don鈥檛 make light of the situation just because you didn鈥檛 know them.
Offer to cook, pick-up takeout food or do the dishes鈥ittle acts of kindness can go a long way. Beyond that there isn鈥檛 much you can do.
I recently went to a funeral for my great step-uncle, I wasn't in tears or anything because I didn't know him personally. If you've never even heard of the person, you shouldn't feel anything, really. You may feel sad that they died or feel bad for your mom's loss but that's about it.
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